Tuesday, May 18, 2010

For lovers…

The idea of finding the one – do you think the one who is beside you now is “the one” that you are looking for? She/he might treat you well now but will he/she stays like that forever? This post is not to make you doubt about your love but a piece of thought that we should share together.

Feeling for each other or lovers is very important for everyone. Everything is in the romance or dream land and your heart glows when both of you are together especially when you are 19-26 years old. You like to be in company of each other and of course, being alone is torturous. Thinking about her/him all the time, msging non stop even though you are making “big business”, before sleep or after wake up is a ritual. Breakfast on the bed? A morning kiss from her, while wearing your shirt? Wow. That’s how to live a life. I like!

All of this seems perfect, except that you are not married yet. It is still a dream and it remains a dream. Let faces the fact of life my dear. If this behaviour becomes a girlfriend/boyfriend custom, there will be nothing new when you get married. Your previous experience will make you want more and even expecting more from your partner. Romance is a normal thing for you and marriage does not offer something new. All the best for “the one”…

So? Is that what we really want? – I am sorry I like to talk craps. =P Read and forget bout it…

4 comments:

Yvonne Ling said...

Interesting perspective.

I guess it's difficult to know whether the one we are with now is "the one". But if we keep having thoughts that he/she is Not "the one", I don't think he/ she will settle down. Maybe he/she will keep looking for "the one".

It's scary to think about the future, who will we marry and how would life be , or will we even marry? I'm being very pessimistic here. haha.

edz said...

We hope for the best especially for our own future =), believe in yourself...

hojiayiing said...

aha..especially requested to read this blog..hm..

i agree with u..age 19-26, we (i) might be too naive to know if he's the right one..but i do believe, we need to at least 'pak toh' for a period of time, only then will we gage if we can live with this man/woman.\

all the best my two best mates~

edz said...

what is 'pak toh'?? a dialect?? new language?? hehe... =P

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